Well, i gave ample amount of time for things not to come to this.On 1/22 i posted in the diy forum for someone to build a canopy for me.A fellow MR member pmd me back and said he could help me out and build it for me.On 1/23 the member had his deposit and told me it would be a week before it was completed.Well here we are on 2/22 and still no canopy, the even bigger problem is that he stopped responding to me over 2 weeks ago.He gave me excuse after excuse why it was not completed, which i was fine with.But know like i said ive pmd him several several times while hes been logged in here, and called and left messages several several times to no avail.If you read this and you know who you are i am just asking for my deposit back.I have left that in several pms to go unresponded to.Please pm me and i will give you a paypal address.If not i will let everyone know here who stole my money.
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Sasharotty, I did not mean to hijack your thread! Sorry about that, I was just trying to understand the rules 
I do hope you find a resolution to your situation. Like others have said, with the receipt, if you need to take them to small claims court, you would at least have some documentation.
Best of luck in getting your money back.
Don
I do hope you find a resolution to your situation. Like others have said, with the receipt, if you need to take them to small claims court, you would at least have some documentation.
Best of luck in getting your money back.
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Don, no problem at all.Like i said i definatly didnt want anything to come to this.In this horrible economy every dollar helps, if it was a few years back i probably wouldnt even have said anything and just went about my buisness and took it as a loss.But with work cutting back hours and pay diminishing it really hurts.And Dent im giving him every opportunity to do so, and by looking at the profile he/she was logged in again today.I just want this canopy done so i can have a reef that looks half as good as your tanks.
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That's a great idea ereefer! Then send him a link to this thread in a PM. That way they can't claim ignorance... I would PM and email the link if possible... Maybe even call and leave a message, and be REALLY nice
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Ok well still no responses, im going to give it until friday. Im taking this as a loss, because if he was going to come clean it would have been done by now.Especially the 2 weeks prior of pms and phone calls.
I believe Ereefer was referring to flaming or bashing remarks regarding the person who may be at fault in any situation. You can name whomever you want for whatever reasons, it serves the purpose of getting the problem into the open forums allowing them to either:
tell their side of the story, and then:
a-defend themselves against false accusations.
b-resolve the situation to everyone's satisfaction.
Most of the time, as long as the post stays civil, persons are free to be named to the benefit of ALL other members in order to avoid possible conflicts in the future. Sooner or later a reputation for trouble WILL follow people that are out to take advantage of fellow reefers here. I think most people here are more than willing to help out their fellow reefers, and it stinks that there are a few undisireables here who have to sour other's experiences here. Hopefully this matter gets resolved soon, one way or another.
tell their side of the story, and then:
a-defend themselves against false accusations.
b-resolve the situation to everyone's satisfaction.
Most of the time, as long as the post stays civil, persons are free to be named to the benefit of ALL other members in order to avoid possible conflicts in the future. Sooner or later a reputation for trouble WILL follow people that are out to take advantage of fellow reefers here. I think most people here are more than willing to help out their fellow reefers, and it stinks that there are a few undisireables here who have to sour other's experiences here. Hopefully this matter gets resolved soon, one way or another.
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canisson,
That was a good reminder. Let's all be clear on this....if/when the reefer is named, he has a chance to tell his side. Everyone will follow the forum rules, some of which I have copied below:
Abusive Posts:
You agree not to post any abusive, obscene, vulgar, slanderous, hateful, threatening, sexually-orientated or any other material that may violate any applicable laws. Doing so may lead to you being immediately and permanently banned (and your service provider being informed). The IP address of all posts is recorded to aid in enforcing these conditions.
Objectional Material:
What constitutes generally objectionable material shall be determined by the forum's moderator with power of veto by the michiganreefers.com Board's Administrator or Moderator.
Private Messages:
Private messages shall mean messages sent through the board's Private message system. The board's private message system shall not be used for any of, but not limited to, the following purposes, a) Sending unsolicited advertisements i.e. 'SPAMING' b) Soliciting or distributing material that is, abusive, obscene, vulgar, slanderous, hateful, threatening, sexually orientated or any other material that may violate any applicable laws. c) Conspiring to, Intent to or causing malicious damage. Private Messages are for your own personal use as a member of the board. Private messages may be purged or archived by the administrators to conserve space.
Flaming:
Absolutely NO Flamming. Our goal is to keep a flame free site to all our members. Flammers will be warned and could lead to a suspended account.
Here at Michigan Reefers, we believe that dialogs between participants should be conducted in a friendly and helpful manner. If you disagree with a posting, please express yourself in a way that is conducive to further constructive dialog. Conversely, when you post on any given subject, you must be willing to accept constructive criticism without posting a hostile or inflammatory response. Personal attacks of any kind will not be tolerated. Please let's work to insure that remains a friendly and flame free site where everyone, especially newcomers, can feel free to post questions without fear of being unfairly criticized.
That was a good reminder. Let's all be clear on this....if/when the reefer is named, he has a chance to tell his side. Everyone will follow the forum rules, some of which I have copied below:
Abusive Posts:
You agree not to post any abusive, obscene, vulgar, slanderous, hateful, threatening, sexually-orientated or any other material that may violate any applicable laws. Doing so may lead to you being immediately and permanently banned (and your service provider being informed). The IP address of all posts is recorded to aid in enforcing these conditions.
Objectional Material:
What constitutes generally objectionable material shall be determined by the forum's moderator with power of veto by the michiganreefers.com Board's Administrator or Moderator.
Private Messages:
Private messages shall mean messages sent through the board's Private message system. The board's private message system shall not be used for any of, but not limited to, the following purposes, a) Sending unsolicited advertisements i.e. 'SPAMING' b) Soliciting or distributing material that is, abusive, obscene, vulgar, slanderous, hateful, threatening, sexually orientated or any other material that may violate any applicable laws. c) Conspiring to, Intent to or causing malicious damage. Private Messages are for your own personal use as a member of the board. Private messages may be purged or archived by the administrators to conserve space.
Flaming:
Absolutely NO Flamming. Our goal is to keep a flame free site to all our members. Flammers will be warned and could lead to a suspended account.
Here at Michigan Reefers, we believe that dialogs between participants should be conducted in a friendly and helpful manner. If you disagree with a posting, please express yourself in a way that is conducive to further constructive dialog. Conversely, when you post on any given subject, you must be willing to accept constructive criticism without posting a hostile or inflammatory response. Personal attacks of any kind will not be tolerated. Please let's work to insure that remains a friendly and flame free site where everyone, especially newcomers, can feel free to post questions without fear of being unfairly criticized.
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Have spoken with the gentleman, case closed.Mods please close this thread.
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